Senselessness of anger
- why seemingly insignificant things can trigger such violent reactions (drop of the towel)
- volatile anger, lashing out at people you love
- what we are liable to be hurt about changes in different people (don't mind bossy, hate counting fail)
Revenge
- how small things to get back at people can make you feel so much better
- why a little pay back disolves anger
- the victim of revenge doesn't even need to know - personal, mental aspect
Competition within a friendship
- bring together causing anger in somebody and need for revenge
- being able to cause anger = power - to know somebody well you know what frustrates them and can use that against them - vulnerability that usually isn't preyed upon
- can't just let something go - friendship is among equals and therefor payback is deserved
Forgiveness
- simple step, even unknowningly made, makes a huge difference
- involves self sacrifice on their part - why do we need this from people?
Stubbornness: Sticking an idea
- infatuation with a concept
- "good idea at the time" or "it made sense in my head" - refusing to think things through or ignore the effects you know will come
- playfulness of the intense determination
- refusal to consider other ideas
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